The Default Reaction

We’ve all done it.
Reacted. Snapped. Got furious before we got curious.
I’ve done it with Dave. In the middle of life and noise and deadlines, I've chosen fury over pause.
And in those moments, the real story, the human underneath the mistake, gets missed.
The intention , often good, kind, loving, never sees the light of day.

And the reality, most of the time it’s not even about the other person It’s internal.

That’s the root of all of this.
We don’t need to fix others first. We need to work on what’s going on inside us.

And there it is.