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Leadership coaching

Your a leader,

but are you truly leading?

Leadership isn't about titles or corner offices. It's about making decisions that matter, inspiring others, and driving real results. But let's face it, sometimes, it feels like you're just managing chaos.

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It could be like this for you…

  • You’re in charge, but it doesn’t feel like leadership.

  • You’re stuck managing the noise instead of making real decisions.

  • Your team looks to you for direction, but you’re questioning your own clarity.

  • You’re leading, but second-guessing.

  • You’re good at what you do, but imposter syndrome is louder than the facts.

  • You’re constantly solving problems, but it feels like putting out fires, not creating momentum.

  • You’ve built a career, a business, a leadership role, and now you’re asking—is this it?

  • You know you’re capable of more, but you can’t get out of your own way.

  • You’re making decisions, but reactively, not intentionally.

  • You want to be the leader people follow because they trust your clarity, not just because of your title.

  • You feel the pressure of leading, but who’s challenging and supporting you?

Whatever’s keeping you stuck, it’s time to shift.

What is leadership coaching, really?

At and., we don’t do off-the-shelf leadership coaching. We cut through the noise, challenge assumptions, and push you to lead with clarity and intent. We question, guide, support, and hold up the mirror—are you truly leading, or just managing the chaos? Leadership or Leadershit? Your call.

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Leadership coaching is…

✔ Direct, actionable, and tailored to your reality.

✔ Focused on transforming reactive management into proactive leadership.

✔ Designed to challenge you, push boundaries, and drive tangible results

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Leadership coaching is not …

❌ A series of motivational speeches that fade by Monday.

❌ One-size-fits-all strategies that ignore your unique challenges.

❌ A place to reinforce the status quo.

We've walked the path:

  • Built businesses from the ground up.

  • Faced failures head-on and turned them into growth.

  • Led diverse teams through uncertainty and change.

We coach from experience, not theory.

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Take our quiz to explore where your on the leadershit scale.

Leadership or

Leadershit?

Think you're leading? Or just managing the chaos? Take 3 minutes to get real about where you stand.

  • Are you leading with clarity or just firefighting?

  • Are your decisions intentional or reactive?

  • Are you empowering your team or micromanaging the noise?

At the end, you'll get a leadership score, insights on where you stand, and quick-hit ideas to level up.

No fluff, no ego-stroking, just a straight-up reality check.

Bonus → You’ll also get access to our weekly leadership insights, straight to your inbox.

⚡ Take the quiz now and find out: Leadership or Leadershit?

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If you score under 60, we recommend ☞

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What do we mean when we say Leadership or Leadershit?

At and., we don’t believe in right or wrong leadership, we believe in awareness, choice, and action. Everyone has leadershit moments, the times you react instead of respond, avoid the hard call, or get caught up in the noise instead of setting direction. It happens.

The question is, how often?

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Leadership is when you step up with clarity, own your impact, and make intentional decisions that move things forward.


Leadershit is when you get stuck in reactivity, firefight problems, and let fear, avoidance, or doubt run the show.

The goal isn’t perfection, it’s reducing the leadershit moments so you spend more time actually leading.

  • Are you making intentional decisions or reacting on autopilot?

  • Do you set the direction, or does the noise set it for you?

  • Are you leading your team, or are they leading you?

Leadership isn’t a title. It’s a choice you make, every day, in every moment.
So let’s cut the leadershit and lead with purpose.

Where are you at today? Take the quiz and find out. Start here.

Our leadership coaching products

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1 to 1 coaching

Coached by the and. co-founders Dave or Debbie. Your 1 to 1 sessions are weekly, max 46 minutes, structured and free flow dealing with what comes up, we use our method of stuck, solve, simplify and thrive and boost it with self coaching tools and techniques that you can use immediately to help deal with any situation. The sessions are bookable in 3,6 6,9 or 12 month blocks

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  • Who will I be coached by?
    All 1:1 coaching is delivered by and. co-founders Dave or Debbie, ensuring deep expertise and real-world experience.

    How long are the sessions?
    Sessions are weekly, max 46 minutes, structured yet adaptable to what you need in the moment.

    What can I expect from coaching?
    We use our Stuck, Solve, Simplify, Thrive method to cut through the noise, solve problems, and get real results. Expect direct, no-fluff coaching that pushes you forward.

    How long is the coaching commitment?
    Coaching is bookable in 3, 6, 9, or 12-month blocks to ensure long-term impact.

    What if I miss a session?
    We get life happens. Rescheduling is possible with at least 48 hours' notice.

    How do I start?
    Get in touch now

    Pricing

    💰 1:1 coaching starts from £250 per session. Packages start from £850.

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Self coaching -buy now guides

Self-coaching, the and. way. Direct, practical, and designed to get you moving fast. Our self-coaching guides cut through the noise and give you real strategies, sharp prompts, and immediate actions to help you solve problems, simplify decisions, and thrive. No fluff, no waiting. Download now and start coaching yourself today.

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  • What are self-coaching guides?
    They are practical, structured coaching tools designed to help you solve problems, simplify decisions, and take action, immediately.

    How do they work?
    Each guide is packed with strategies, direct prompts, and exercises to help you coach yourself through challenges and decisions.

    Who are they for?
    Anyone who wants clarity, action, and results, without waiting for a coaching session. Ideal for individuals, leaders, and business owners.

    How do I access them?
    They are instant digital downloads—buy now, start coaching yourself today.

    What if I need support using them?
    Join our workshops or book a coaching session if you want to go deeper.

    Pricing

    💰 Self-coaching guides start from £22.

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Workshops

Workshops, the and. way. No fluff, no filler, real, actionable coaching in a high-impact setting. Designed to challenge, shift thinking, and create immediate results. Expect direct strategies, sharp insights, and practical tools you can use straight away. Solve problems, simplify decisions, and thrive. Join the next cohort, check upcoming events, or get on the waitlist now

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  • What makes and. workshops different?
    No fluff. No filler. Just real, high-impact coaching with direct strategies, sharp insights, and practical tools you can use immediately.

    Who are they for?
    Individuals, leaders, and business owners who want clarity, action, and fast results.

    What happens in a workshop?
    Expect interactive coaching, problem-solving, and practical frameworks that shift your thinking and create real change.

    How do I join?
    Check upcoming events, join the next cohort, or get on the waitlist to experience us in action.

    Can I book a private workshop for my team?
    Yes. [Contact us] to discuss customised workshops for your business.

    Pricing

    💰 Workshop pricing varies. Contact us for details.

How do I know I need coaching?

At and., we understand that leadership doesn't exist in a vacuum. It's intertwined with who you are and how you operate.

  • Your personal beliefs and experiences shape your leadership style. We help you align your personal growth with your leadership journey.

  • The health of your business reflects your leadership effectiveness. We address organizational challenges that stem from leadership dynamics.

It's all connected. We coach the whole leader, not just the role.

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How is a choice

How we help.

We partner with you to:

  • Identify and break unproductive leadership habits.

  • Develop a clear vision and the strategies to achieve it.

  • Enhance emotional intelligence to lead with empathy and authority.

  • Improve decision-making skills under pressure.

  • Foster a culture of accountability and innovation within your team.

This is coaching for leaders who are ready to elevate their impact.

How to start

  • Schedule a Discovery Call → Let's discuss your leadership challenges and goals.

  • Customised Coaching Plan → We'll design a coaching program tailored to your specific needs.

  • Engage in Transformative Sessions → Through one-on-one coaching, workshops, and actionable feedback, you'll evolve into the leader you aspire to be.

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What if you choose not to…?

Without intentional development:

  • Your team may lack direction and motivation.

  • Decision-making becomes reactive, not strategic.

  • Opportunities for growth and innovation may be missed.

Leadership isn't static. Evolve, or risk becoming obsolete.

Lead with purpose. Lead with and.

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Start moving forward.

No more waiting.


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Origin:

  • Concept name created: 2012

  • Publicly delivered in content and coaching: From 2012 onwards

  • First Leadership or Leadersh*t Retreat: Aldourie Castle, Scotland, 2012

  • Leadership Deficit Declared: In-room consensus at Aldourie, 2012

Book:

  • First version of the book published: 2017
    (Title: “Leadership or Leadersht” by Dave Evans)*

  • Book updated and expanded: 2024, with co-author input from Debbie Halls-Evans

  • Contains The 8 Faces of Leadership and The 7 Daily Leadership Principles

  • ISBN registration and public sales as of 2017

Methodology:

  • Framework: Stuck → Solve → Simplify → Thrive

  • Core tools: Primary Aim, Fast Forward, Leadership MOT, MindChangers®

  • Delivered globally via RLC Global, Real Leadership Coaching real leadership consulting and now through and.scot

Movement:

  • Global retreat series re-launched: 2022, Denver

  • 2023 theme: Learn to Stop. Build Your L.I.F.E.

  • 2024 theme: Find Your Thrive Conditions

  • 2025 theme: Mastering Your Less’isms – Thrive by Doing Less
    (Next retreat: Edinburgh, October 22–24)

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